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Love is not supposed to hurt
Despite Awareness days and months all over the world, I think that we shouldn't need to wait for that day to start spreading a simple but very true message. Domestic Violence does not just occur against women although the higher statistics exist there.
Domestic Violence can occur against anybody. It's important for people to realise that Men, Mothers, Fathers, Daughters, Sons, Grandparents and the rest, could all experience Domestic Violence in some shape or form.
In a world that raises awareness for things such as Cancer, HIV, Natural Disasters, Abused animals, Starving children...Domestic Violence can seem like a very small minority in comparison. But it can be occurring all around you. Domestic Violence starts at home. Not always, but the majority of the time.
And ladies, from one woman to another - you will read this article and conclude firmly that you will Never put yourself through this. But when it's happening, when you're in too deep to get away at the start, when you think it's Love and you'll do anything to make Him happy - that thought will be the last thing to cross your mind.
*Please don't forget that men can and are victims of Domestic Abuse*
13 Million
Separate incidents of violence or threats against a man or woman from current and former partners occur in any one year.
54%
Of rapes are committed by a woman's current or former partner.
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Women are killed every week - one third of all female homicide victims - by a current or former partner.
A Quarter of a Million
Calls were received by the Domestic Violence Helpline during its first twelve months of existence.
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750,000
Children witness domestice violence...
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...Every year
70%
Of children living in UK refuges have been abused by a parent.
£176,000,000
Is The cost of treating mental disorder due to domestic violence.
1 in Five
Men believe that abuse or violence against a woman is acceptable.
And so do 1 in Ten Women
Nobody, least of all YOU deserves to be in these statistics.
Resources
0808 2000 247 - 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline UK
www.helpguide.org/mental/domes… - Worldwide Advice Website
All statistics in this article are provided by the UK Home Office and Womens Aid.
*I will repeat myself from further up in the article - I am not denying that men are not abused - this article is coming from my perspective as a woman, I have researched statistics and cannot find any firm ones relating to male abuse. BUT IT DOES HAPPEN and I am not denying that.*
Nom Nom #90 It's Christmas!!!!!
Merry CHRISTMAS! In honour of the festive day, this month's Nom Nom theme is focusing on tasty seasonal noms of the very best kind! Whether you celebrate the season or not, these tasty treats are bound to have you licking your lips and breaking out the baking utensils!
Previous Noms
Strawberries | Cinnamon | Chicken | Apples | Chocolate | Brussel Sprouts | Cocktails | Ice Cream | Spaghetti | Raspberries | Pineapple | Bread | Rice | Blueberries | Cupcakes | Tea | Cherries | Toast | Cheesecake | Soup | Apple Pie | Casserole | Halloween | Sausage | Pie | Macaroons | Sushi | Christmas | Peppers | Chinese Food | Eggs | Ham | Garlic | Tomatoe |
Sometimes when you're not looking...
The best things pop up in your newsfeed. And oh my gosh I've been getting to know my newsfeed again today. Things actually appear in there. I'm ashamed to say that when I was a CV a lot of the time it became a click and delete activity, because there was so much. I lost touch with people, I lost touch with a lot of what I wanted to do and what I was interested in. So with this in mind, I found Farand (https://www.deviantart.com/farand)'s latest journal really poignant as he shared this quote...
"The important point for us is to realise that we are basically good. Our only problem is that sometimes we don't actually acknowledge that goodness. We don't see it, so we blame
Nom Nom 89#
This time around, the Tasty Nom has been suggested by cookielover17 (https://www.deviantart.com/cookielover17) who suggested that I put together a feature of Childhood Nostalgia images. It's hard to do because we've all likely had so many different memories across the world, but here are just a few I found when I searched! What are your favourite childhood treats and recipes?
Previous Noms
Strawberries | Cinnamon | Chicken | Apples | Chocolate | Brussel Sprouts | Cocktails | Ice Cream | Spaghetti | Raspberries | Pineapple | Bread | Rice | Blueberries | Cupcakes | Tea | Cherries | Toast | Cheesecake | Soup | Apple Pie | Casserole | Halloween | Sausage | Pie | Macaroons | Sush
This is where I leave you
I just love dramatic titles. I'm not leaving you though, but yes today is the day that things change after such a long time.
I started my Volunteer career on DeviantArt in July 2010. So that means I've been floating around your inboxes, DDing, writing articles and doing lots of photography related shenanigans for over half a decade. Of course, I started out long before that but offically and all that, it's been over five years.
Half a decade. A Demi-Decade. Five years. I have to say that it has flown by. From the day that I first pestered moonbeam13 (https://www.deviantart.com/moonbeam13) into letting me oversee a gallery that technically wasn't vacant (Abstract and Surreal
© 2010 - 2024 Kaz-D
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Domestic Violence is such a difficult problem to fix. For some people there is comfort in the abusive relationship, it's hard to leave something even though there are problems when that relationship has created profound memories, and love --- even it's not a "healthy" love, something in the relationship is bringing the people in it comfort -- and that is difficult to give up even if it is for the best.
But to any & everyone that feels stuck in an unhealthy abusive relationship --- just get out! It's hard, and lonely at times --- but, eventually it gets easier. Let life begin and the destructive chaos end.
Love is Kind...
AnEclecticJewel
But to any & everyone that feels stuck in an unhealthy abusive relationship --- just get out! It's hard, and lonely at times --- but, eventually it gets easier. Let life begin and the destructive chaos end.
Love is Kind...
AnEclecticJewel